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Girls, don’t let the world damage you (II)



Temilolu Okeowo


June 29, 2019

Dear Mummy Temilolu,

May God continue to increase your wisdom to lead us on the right path! I look forward to meeting you some day. I decided to break up with my boyfriend after reading one of your posts and I don’t regret doing so! Thanks for opening my eyes to more important things I need to focus on for now!


Dear Aunty Temilolu,

I am 17 years old and a guy told me he was in love with me. What should I do, please? And guess what? I am the girl my brother slept with four times when I was nine.


My darling M,

I’m really sorry you were abused as a child and really want to believe you’ve got over it long before now! I know you have a loose idea of sex and I wish you would turn your face away from advances from guys. This is because with your likely state of mind on sex, you would do just about anything to keep a guy you fall in love with. YOU WOULD BE BADLY DISTRACTED BECAUSE YOU WOULD EXPECT TOO MUCH FROM YOUR LOVER AND YOU ARE LIKELY TO GET SO LITTLE, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU COME SO CHEAP! Please forget about having a boyfriend for now. Concentrate on attaining a CGPA that could fetch you a first-class degree or at least a second-class upper degree. Concentrate on making the most of your virtues/innate skills, take a closer walk with God and let Him cook you, and by the time He’s done with you, even you will be perplexed by the wonderful wonder that you’d become. NO GUY IS WORTH YOUR ATTENTION NOW! Please forget what happened when you were nine years old. You can’t turn back the hands of time but you can create a glorious future out of your dreams. May God bless you and make you VERY GREAT in Jesus’ mighty name!

Dear Mummy Temilolu,

I came across one of your articles and felt I should share this with you. I stay with a family friend whose husband has older children, one of whom is a guy about my age – 17. We became close and we started doing “things” with our bodies; although, sexual intercourse is yet to be involved. I’m still a virgin as I’ve never had sex before and he claims to be one as well. However, I don’t feel good in my spirit. I’m a chorister in my church and in recent times, I get scared to minister to people. I can feel my spiritual life drowning even without sex. I don’t know what to do and I don’t want to disappoint my parents.


My dear Anonymous,

I thank God His spirit has not departed from you! You are a good girl but not quite in control of your spirit. And I tell you, this is one of the major problems of the average youth and human being in general. You can’t afford to be lukewarm as the devil is forever roaming the world, looking for whom to devour! In the first instance, I thank God you’re still “intact” even though you could just be a “technical virgin” as I don’t know what you’ve both been doing to your bodies! Now that you feel so bad with messing around with your body, which is God’s holy temple, can you imagine how you’d feel if for instance, he comes again to you tonight and he gets to have intercourse with you? STOP PLAYING WITH FIRE! YOU CAN’T HANDLE IT! I TELL YOU, YOU’D NEVER GET OVER IT EASILY!

As I told M above, you have no business getting into a romantic relationship for now! Also, for someone like you who’s so spiritually-inclined such that you know God is frowning on your immoral acts, doesn’t your spirit tell you that God thinks so highly of you and has fantastic groundbreaking plans for you in the supernatural? Hmm….if your family friend won’t stop harassing you, then you would have to leave his house because I know you’d never want to tell anyone what’s been going on! BE CAREFUL, BE CAREFUL, BE CAREFUL! Once you taste sex, your life can never be the same again for diverse reasons! You are too young to handle all that comes with it! It’s too distracting for your age! BELIEVE ME! BE PATIENT, BE PATIENT, BE PATIENT WITH GOD, GIVE HIM YOUR LIFE AND AT THE RIGHT TIME, HE’D LEAD YOU TO A FANTASTIC MAN WHO YOU’D SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH AND HAVE SEX WITH 10 TIMES A DAY IF YOU BOTH WISH!

To be continued.

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Are you still engaging in premarital sex? Each act devalues you! Your wonders are waiting to start. God is waiting for you to become a secondary virgin! You are most welcome on board the chastity campaign train and Girls Club is open for all girls and ladies. Please text your name, age, school or occupation and state of domicile to 07086620576.


Chastity does not belong to the past. It saves you a lot of trouble, preserves your beautiful destiny and stands you out from the crowd. You are better off not engaging in premarital and extramarital sex. Stay chaste!

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